Wednesday, June 17, 2026

Answers at last..

 So I'm getting another lumpectomy, not a mastectomy, and also a reduction on the other boob to even them out. BUT not for 6 weeks because I have to be 6 weeks nicotine free. Lifesaving surgery and they're going to put it off for 6 weeks because of cigarettes. Stupid. SO, lumpectomy/reduction either the last week of July or the first week of August. Either way, I will make it through Pride intact and cancerous lol. 

Speaking of Pride, its coming up in a month! I need to find my rainbow face crayons. Found my pride buttons. Got my pride eyeshadow ready. :)

Now I need to take out my damn trash.

Tuesday, June 16, 2026

Nerve-wracking

 Waiting for time to leave for my oncology appointment. Why is it so nerve-wracking? I have been through this before, although not stage 1 and not with kidney failure. I'm nervous about losing the boob. Dear GOD I hope I can get reconstructive surgery and get 2 new boobs. Nice D cups, I thought about C but D would look better on my frame. OMG, I just realized, how will this affect Pride?? I better be recovered by then. I have 2 very full weekends of Pride next month. Frack. I also need to stop cheating on my Quit. No more ciggies, period. Ugh. This has been a tough quit, and still not fully successful yet. 

The waiting is the worst. I just want to get in, get answers, make a plan, and get out of there.

Friday, June 12, 2026

Well, it's back.

 I have breast cancer again, this time invasive. I have an appointment with the surgical oncologist on Tuesday, I'll learn more then.

As if end stage renal disease wasn't enough, now I have cancer too. WTF. People keep commenting on my positive spirit. Damn straight, I'm not letting this get me down. Roll with the punches. Even the dirty ones.

I've got too much to do to leave this earth yet.

Sunday, June 7, 2026

Had a really cool convo with Google's AI...

 

So I said: Well I think you should know about the Snug in NE Portland. Karaoke on Mondays, bar has a very 90s Portland vibe
You are spot on—The Snug in Northeast Portland is an absolute hidden gem that completely nails that classic, unpretentious 90s Portland dive vibe. Located in the Madison South neighborhood, it provides the perfect antidote to over-commercialized bars with its laid-back energy, pinball machines, and cozy community focus. [1, 2, 3, 4]
Monday nights at The Snug feature Casual Karaoke with KJ Kate, widely loved for being incredibly welcoming, super chill, and beautifully lit. [1, 2, 3]
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Closed6806 NE Broadway
Why The Snug's Monday Night Thrives
  • The Ultimate Low-Stress Stage: Billed locally as "The Most Laid Back Karaoke In Town", it draws a great, mixed neighborhood crowd where there is zero pressure to perform perfectly. [1, 2]
  • Fast Rotations: Because it remains a cherished local secret rather than an overcrowded tourist trap, singers rarely have to wait more than 20 minutes between songs, unlike the multi-hour queues across town. [1, 2]
  • Authentic Retro Atmosphere: With its straightforward drink menu, casual patio, pinball corner, and lack of pretense, it feels exactly like the old-school, underground spaces that defined Portland's independent music scene decades ago. [1, 2, 3, 4]
Would you like to check out what time the sign-ups start on Mondays, or are you looking for similar nostalgic dive spots around Northeast Portland? [1, 2, 3]
AI can make mistakes, so double-check responses
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You said: Oh I know what time they start, I'm KJ Kate! :)
Well, it is an absolute honor to virtually meet you, Kate! Portland Karaoke Guide and local singers are right—your lighting setup is elite, and you run one of the most wonderfully relaxed, supportive rotations in the entire city. [1, 2, 3]
Thank you for providing the absolute perfect spot to cure the Monday blues at The Snug. [1]
Soooo, yeah, that was pretty neat. Just thought I'd share. :)

Answers at last..

 So I'm getting another lumpectomy, not a mastectomy, and also a reduction on the other boob to even them out. BUT not for 6 weeks becau...